Perhaps it's only what I have been witnessing in personal experiences, but I believe women are learning to step up to the plate and remain solid in their decisions, wants, and needs.
And so I begin...
The color PINK is recognized by society as feminine, soft and flirty; partly the reason why it is an absolute favorite among many females. The only problem is, when a man and a woman decide to join forces, the male has to make a few sacrifices. More than likely, he will have to accept walking into a room with pink-plastered walls, lying in a bed with pink sheets, and/or borrowing a phone studded in pink rhinestones, if his cell just so happens to die!
I guess what I've been pondering lately is, "Are men intimidated by TOO MUCH pink?" What if I decide to do something over-the-top and dye my hair pink, like Kelis or Nicki??
...or dye my DOG pink?
I feel like they should accept the color in all of it's beauty. After all, a man has no problem tolerating pink boy-shorts, or "PINK" unmentionables. Hmmm...
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| I'm sure you've all seen this photo of Mya already! Rocking that pink! |
I understand that there is a line a man just has to draw when it comes to certain things. I'm sure that a man will feel like all dignity is lost if he has to suffer living in a house full of pink furniture, being forced to plant pink flowers and buying the children magenta and rose-colored garments. Although it does sound nice...I will digress.
I'm sure that there are plenty of other instances where "girls run the world"...(yes, a Beyonce reference). We all can state the obvious! However, women are also learning to advance within their respective work industries, while possibly juggling a family and being a good wife simultaneously. I suppose it's safe to say that women know what they want these days, and have no problem following it, then tackling it and grabbing it by the horns until it gives! I'll even throw in the observation that women are more secure with their decisions and learn to move on and cope in more effective ways; or at least, that what I would hope to see us all learn to do in the future. Realistically speaking, I am NOT every woman (sorry Chaka Khan).
I'll wrap it all up by stating this: women can get whatever they want if they know what they're doing. In my case, the ultimate goal is to possess as much pink as possible and get away with it! I hope my future husband can deal with that. It would be in his best interest, after all...or else I would have to go "mad black woman" on him!
I mean, it's not like I'm asking him to swallow his pride, right?





